When Life makes you think

Sometimes when you least expect it, life makes you stand at a place where you have to make a decision or atleast give something a thought that you had never expected to think about a few minutes ago. A little while ago, I was at that position... The bad part is that at that moment you are absolutely alone and cannot talk about it with anyone, and the worse part is you need to talk about it to think clearly. What a dilemma with no obvious solution. Why does this happen, I wonder? Is it coincidence that something like this happens? Or is it because it was planned? Dunno, but its tough and its disturbing. Life used to be so much simpler few years ago :).........