Broadband Ahoy

This is my first blog from home.. Actually got a broadband connection at home finally after hours, days and months of effort. But finally, after lot of frustating times and disappointments I have finally got broadband at home...

The speed is really cool as well..

Don't have much to write now so I'll take leave..

Merci..

Au Revoir

Ignorance Joke

Read this in Reader's Digest the other day:

Q: What is the difference between Ignorance and Apathy?

A: I DONT KNOW and I DONT CARE !

lol, rofl :D

Ignorance is bliss?

If I come across something new I just can't stand the fact that I had no idea about it earlier and I put it as a to be done tasks for myself to atleast find out about it later. This becomes a little discomforting as there is just too much to learn or know about :P. And I am talking just about the stuff at work, not even non-technical for the time being...

What is the best thing to do in such a situation? I have no clue. I try to grasp as much as I can from my colleagues and web but its just too much to know out there. Many would say, just look at what concerns you and just ignore the other stuff. But, I am sorry to say that's not possible, its not that easy :). I wanna know...

So, I'll keep learning till my brain lets go :P.

What to do when someone backbites

Many a times you come around people that either bad mouth about you behind your back or put their foot in things that are of absolutely no concern to them... And the this leaves you hurt.. I am not sure if I know many of such people and even if they are around me, they are pretty good at it at what they do cause I have no clue about their existence. But the question is that if you do happen to be the victim in such a scenario, what to do?

The first thing that comes to mind is to let go... just don't care about what who said and have a don't care attitude towards such a thing. Although this is probably the best solution, it isn't the easiest thing to do. So, what else can be done.

One option would be to go to the person meddling around and say very clearly and sternly, dude, keep your trap closed.
The other option, more cultivated, is to take the person to a corner and tell him that what he's doing ain't right and it hurts cause it is not what I expect from you. I am sure if the person is doing it just to get some kicks out of it, then, he will stop. The other kind of people will never change, but, they will atleast be aware that they aren't as smart as they thought they are.

Which one do I choose? None! I'll go backbite as well :P

ME

Till today I have always written in my blog about what I think....

Probably today I will try to find out why I think the way I do think!

I am from a middle class family with my father serving in the Indian Army and mother who is a school teacher.

All through my childhood I was always around people who were from the army background and thus got influenced by their way of looking at things. Also due to the fact that we moved every 2-3 years, I never any long term friends. Thus, I kept meeting new people (which I did not like) and thus I drew a line to keep me safe (from everyone). Probably that made me very introvert, and I had no real point of view about anything.

And then college happened!

For the first time in my life I was away from the protective care of my parents and no one to guide me. There I learnt the most important aspects of life... and probably what is life. I met people there who I can call true friends and with whom I could discuss things that I probably couldn't do with myself. But at the same time I met people who one needs to be careful of and got cheated or let down by people I trusted. And these things made me stronger... It taught me who to be friends with and who not. Who to trust and who to be careful of. What others think and why! And so on. Also I became free :) For the first time I was no longer afraid of people. I could talk freely and share some of my thoughts freely and not care about what they would think about it. So I redrew the line. And as this line makes me feel protected and although I couldn't remove my safe line, I shifted the boundary that I still never cross.

So the way I think is probably due to the way things have happened in my life and most prominent among them is no doubt, college years. The years i cherish and will always be indebted of... for life!

One wrong step

'One wrong step can change destiny'!

Something I said to a friend today, and then thought about it for a little while...

Is this statement actually true? I don't know... maybe this needs more thinking and I don't want to do so. Maybe I will later and put another blog about it.

Wrong step, destiny changed :)

Life!

What is life?

A question everybody asks and no one has an answer to (and everybody has an answer to). I believe life is nothing but a search... A search for an objective. For someone, it may be some achievement in terms of career. For, another it might be just getting through the day. For me, its about finding an objective. I don't know what I want. Is it that simple? Maybe not. But I know things I don't want. I don't want to call myself a failure after 20 years from now. I don't know what is wrong or right today, but if I don't do anything today, I won't know what is right or wrong tomorrow either. Thus, I know I will make choice, and I will make it now. And this choice will either give me success or experience. Because failure is experience. One who never failed will never know what success means or feels like. Thus, I will keep searching.

And I will live... till I die!

To 'Hell' with love

Saw this at a friends blog and gave it a shot ....

RESULT

Me going to Hell.. see you there!

The Dante's Inferno Test has banished you to the Third Level of Hell!

Third Level of Hell
In the third circle, you find yourself amidst eternal rain, maledict, cold, and heavy. The gluttons are punished here, lying in the filthy mixture of shadows and of putrid water. Because you consumed in excess, you meet your fate beneath the cold, dirty rain, amidst the other souls that there lay unhappily in the stinking mud. Cerebus, a canine monster cruel and uncouth with his three heads and red eyes, dwells in this level. He growls and tears at the damned with his teeth and claws.

Take the Dante's" Inferno Hell Test

Can you think what to think?

I was wondering today what if you had to think something to think about.... I mean everytime we think, its about SOMETHING, so what if you had to think about something to think about.... Dunno what I am thinking but I AM :)..
Sometimes mind just goes blank with nothing to think about, what do anyone do then! I don't really know what I do at that time, cause I don't really remember of it. I believe that's when I am really thinking about something to think about, and its totally weird. If you understand what I am writing here, please put your thoughts here. I will need em next time I get into the thinking to think business.